The package

I have noticed that when I listen to other people's stories about their life, I not only learn something for myself but also about them.

Listening to other people's stories can help build personal relationships with people that continue to be a strong hold for the rest of your life. I have personally noticed this when I am on campus and meeting new students in an array of classes on different topics. I would normally not associate with these individuals outside of the classroom due to different lifestyles, but with them being conveniently seated next to me I find it almost as a forced excuse. Hearing about their life experiences, struggles, and future aspirations I find strength to keep pushing on even if they aren't directly related to my own life. These stories are then added to the package of my life.

For example, during my Anthropology class last semester I was seated at a table with four other girls. Nobody knew each other so we started with the basics such as name, age, and certain interests. After this weekly appointment of sharing new facts about each other, one of the girls mentioned that she was 19 years old and was living in an apartment with her boyfriend and having some struggles. I remember thinking how fun and difficult that must be due to the many factors and responsibilities she now is in control of. We were all able to give her useful advice to help her, but I now sit and think that I need to stay at home even though I want complete freedom. It was a small lesson, but I realized that its not always about me.

A story that sums up my life accurately would be me participating in inline speed skating during middle school and through all four years of high school. If somebody were to look at who I was during the end of sixth grade and compare it to the exciting graduation day in 2008, they would not recognize who I became. I not only was more physically fit and inches taller, but I had grown as a leader in my community and an athlete. Having the ability to participate in inline speed skating taught me time management, awareness of other cultures around me, and the importance of leadership. Also being involved in a public high school was what put the bow on the package of my life because it gave me more responsibility and leadership throughout the community.

With each semester in college and advancements at work, I continue to upgrade to a bigger shipping box. I plan to ship my box to the next generation for them to open and learn from.